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  • Try this unexpected ingredient to make fabulous vegan cookies

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    Life is short. Eat vegan cookies!

    Are you trying to strike the right balance between delicious and nutritious fuel for your outdoor adventures? Let me introduce you to the greatest way to add protein to delicious vegan cookies. I feel a lot less guilty for eating cookies when I know I made them myself and they meet an important nutritional need. Whether your toil is physical or mental, read on to learn more!

    The magic comes from beans. I know, it sounds slightly crazy. Beans are for dinner, right? Please hear me out. Beans are a fantastic way to boost the protein content of a vegan cookie without drying out the treat. Beans are also inexpensive, so trying one of the recipes below doesn’t require much investment. I suspect you’ll like them more than you expect.

    Is this trick just for vegans?

    Though using beans in baking is a common trick among vegans, these cookies are good enough to share with all your friends! These recipes can satisfy any dietary need. They’re delicious enough for your friends who eat all the things. They’re easy to adapt for gluten-free folks, and they contain no dairy. Go ahead, blow some minds in your life. Share these luscious vegan cookies far and wide. 

    Why add protein to vegan cookies?

    It is my humble opinion that life is so much better when you allow yourself occasional treats. Sure, we should all be careful about how much sugar we consume. And avoid using food as pawns in mind games. But it’s absolutely possible to make treats that feel much healthier than the usual go-to fare. The couple of recipes I share below utilize beans to boost the protein contact of the cookie. They taste great and make a contribution to the daily protein needs of both vegans and omnivores.

    And no, you will not taste the beans. It’s truly amazing how the beans blend right into the other ingredients. Mainly, they offer a smooth texture, extra moisture, and that coveted protein content. Bonus: your cookies will be vegan and gluten free! I also love that beans are inexpensive, so there’s no need to purchase specialty ingredients such as protein powders.

    Give these vegan cookie recipes a try:

    Chickpea chocolate chip cookies

    Vegan Chickpea Chocolate Chip Cookies

    Delicious chocolate chip cookies with chickpeas as the secret ingredient!
    Prep Time15 minutes
    Cook Time15 minutes
    Total Time30 minutes
    Course: Dessert, Snack
    Cuisine: American, vegan
    Keyword: gluten free cookie, vegan cookie
    Servings: 20 cookies

    Ingredients

    • 1 15-oz. can chickpeas drained and rinsed
    • ¼ cup natural peanut butter
    • ¼ cup natural almond butter
    • cup oat flour
    • ¼ cup sugar white or brown
    • ¼ cup maple syrup
    • teaspoons vanilla extract
    • ¼ teaspoon cinnamon
    • ½ teaspoon baking soda
    • ½ teaspoon baking powder
    • ¼ teaspoon salt
    • cup chocolate chips choose vegan
    • cup of your favorite chopped nuts (optional)

    Instructions

    • Preheat oven to 350℉.
    • Place all ingredients except for chocolate chips into a food processor and process until smooth.
    • Transfer dough into a bowl and stir in chocolate chips.
    • Shape the dough into approximately 20 cookies and place them on a baking sheet lined with parchment or a silicone baking mat.
    • Bake for approximately 13 minutes, then allow to cool before removing from baking sheet.

    Notes

    • I recommend Enjoy Life vegan chocolate chips (#ad)
    • You can make your own oat flour by processing (certified gluten free) rolled oats to a fine texture.
    • If you don’t need the cookies to be gluten free, it’s ok to use the same amount of all-purpose flour.
    • Cookies are best enjoyed right out of the fridge, or they will be fragile.
    • Adapted from Eat with Clarity

    Vegan chocolate peanut butter cookies

    Black Bean Chocolate Cookies

    Awesome, healthier cookies with a rick chocolate flavor. Vegan and gluten free!
    Prep Time15 minutes
    Cook Time10 minutes
    Total Time25 minutes
    Course: Dessert, Snack
    Cuisine: American, vegan
    Keyword: gluten free cookie, vegan cookie
    Servings: 20 cookies

    Ingredients

    • 1 15 oz. can black beans drained and rinsed
    • 1 cup natural peanut butter
    • ½ cup cocoa powder
    • ½ cup maple syrup
    • 2 teaspoons vanilla extract
    • 1 teaspoon baking powder
    • ½ teaspoon salt
    • cup chocolate chips choose vegan
    • ¼ cup of your favorite chopped nutes (optional)

    Instructions

    • Preheat oven to 350℉, lin2 two baking sheets with parchment paper or silicone baking mats.
    • Add all ingredients except chocolate chips to a food processor and process until smooth.
    • Shape dough into cookies and place on baking sheets.
    • Flatten each cookie slightly, then add a few chocolate chips.
    • Bake for 10 minutes, then allow to cool on the baking sheet for 10 minutes before removing.

    Notes

    • I recommend Enjoy Life vegan chocolate chips (#ad)
    • The cookies are best enjoyed right out of the fridge, or they will be fragile.
    • If the dough is sticking to your hands while you’re forming the cookies, keep your hands wet.

    Seriously, you need to try these cookies. For the sake of the protein, people.

    There are a few other benefits and tips for success you’ll want to keep in mind as you expand your horizon and experiment with beans in vegan baking.

    What’s the best way to eat these vegan cookies?

    I really love both of these cookies as a delectable treat on a long run or hike. Anyone can bring a store-bought cookie in their pack. But homemade vegan treats? That’s next level amazing. And you can be that cool person. My most important tip here is to eat the cookies early on your adventure. As I pointed out above, they are fragile once they have warmed up out of the fridge. This means they have a tendency to fall apart. Be sure not to smash them in with other items in your pack. If you can, you’ll probably want to store them in a small hard-sided container.

    The other time to eat these cookies is at that party you’re attending. The party where there are people with varying dietary needs. I know those situations can be intimidating, but these protein-packed cookie recipes will solve all your problems.

    These cookies are both vegan as long as you choose vegan chocolate chips. They can both be made gluten free. And they’re both dairy- and egg-free without any modifications. Tough problem solved! Plus, you get to impress your friends with your delicious, high-protein snack that contains a secret ingredient. You’ll be famous.

    What else should I know?

    Both of the cookie recipes I’ve shared in this post freeze very well. The freezer is one of my favorite ways to reduce food waste. Do you want cookies but you’re not going to eat the whole batch before they’re getting old? Throw a bunch in the freezer. Then you can take them out of the freezer only as you need them. I’ll make a batch at the beginning of the summer and pull them out two-by-two each weekend as I go on outdoor adventures. They’re also a fabulous insurance policy for when friends come over to your place unexpectedly. These cookies thaw quickly – pull them out of the freezer and impress your guests once they arrive.

    We’ve only explored a tiny bit of what is possible with beans in baking. Beans really are the best way to add protein to a vegan treat. It’s worth getting creative and seeing what else is out there! Brownies, flourless cakes, and more. Don’t be afraid to try an old ingredient in a new way. This is what adventurous people do in the kitchen. Get out there on the Internet and in cookbooks – find some other bean-boosted, protein-filled recipes you’d like to try.

    The bottom line on beans in vegan baking

    There’s nothing to fear about using beans in vegan baking! These proteinaceous buddies are your friends. They add protein to delicious treats for vegans. They are also commonly used in for gluten- and dairy-free diets.

    Your luscious cookies can be made with a low-cost ingredient that adds great moisture to baked goods. And they’re way closer to the healthy end of the spectrum than most of what you’ll find at a store.

    Live a little! Eat adventurous cookies and share the news with your crew.

  • Everything you need to know about resilience and burnout

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    By now you’ve lived enough years of life to understand that it’s full of twists, turns, and obstacles. As much as we all want things to be easy and fair, we know wishing for that is energy wasted. Why not re-purpose that energy to cultivate resilience so you can protect yourself against burnout? Yes, you are in control of how you handle the curveballs that come your way.

    It can feel like the world is against you sometimes, right? It’s possible to see things differently and avoid being on the brink of giving up. Let’s talk about how to stop fighting the nature of life and, instead, learn to cultivate resilience. These skills will help you weather the storms of life and prevent burnout before it starts. Read on if you’re interested in a smoother ride through your life journey.

    Am I the only one struggling over here?

    Step one is to remind yourself that you are not the only person who struggles in life sometimes. We all do. There are two ways to look at this. One option is deciding that life is cruel, though this choice usually begins a process of slowly burnout out on responsibilities. The other choice is to take comfort in knowing everyone around you understands and experiences pain. You’re not alone at all. It can be hard to discuss challenges with even people you can trust, but I promise they will have some scars from setbacks.

    The other thing to keep in mind here is that life is not a suffering contest. You might be bummed about a failed project at work when someone else just got laid off. Yes, things could always be worse. But I don’t find that mindset to be helpful. Negating your struggles only isolates you and keeps you from seeking solutions. It’s ok to be in pain even if it’s not limb-threatening pain. Your challenge is valid and deserves compassion. Please don’t fall into the toxic positivity trap or impose it on others.

    Accept that challenges lie ahead

    This sounds simple on its face. Ask anyone whether they think they’ll encounter setbacks in life and they’ll tell you, “Of course”. So why do we fight these challenges so intensely when they show up? The key is there’s a difference between knowing that problems will show up and accepting these problems. Acceptance is the route to protection from overwhelm and burnout. I’ll go on to explain more below that accepting isn’t the same as giving up and taking no action to address problems.

    Accepting that challenges will arise requires the wisdom to take a beat when you’re feeling down. Stop and think. Did I expect to occasionally meet a bump in the road? Yes. Will I make it worse by fighting it? Yes. Recognize that letting your emotions take over is unlikely to improve the situation. It’s just a route to eventually giving up. Instead, put your energy into problem solving. You can even say to yourself, “I can’t go back in time and undo this thing I don’t like. But I can choose what I do next.”

    What to do when you’re feeling some kinda way

    In my day job, one of the issues that causes me pain again and again is the uncertainty of grant-funded work. I love that working in the non-profit world allows me to contribute to projects that are meaningful to me. But grants come with end dates and there always seems to be another one looming on the horizon. Sometimes this unstable ground gets me down and I begin to feel disengaged from my work. I’m not perfect at this, but I try to stop myself when I start wandering into “woe is me” land.

    First, I simply recognize what I’m feeling. It’s sadness. Or anger. Or exasperation. There’s very little control we humans have over these feelings. Human brains create feelings in an instant. We’re powerless to stop feelings from arising – it’s just how we’re wired. The trick is to resist judging the emotion. It’s a waste of energy to fight sadness. It’s just there. I like to visualize sadness as an ocean’s wave crashing over me. If I struggle against it, I’ll get pulled under. If I let it act like a wave, it will wash over me and dissipate.

    When you can stop fighting a negative emotion, you have the power to cultivate resilience and prevent the progression into a self-pity party. This is where the slippery slope to burnout stops.

    Am I doing it wrong?

    It sounds like a cinch to recognize an emotion in the moment and avoid fighting it. In reality, it is far from easy. So what does it mean if you do get caught up in a negative emotion? Are you failing?

    Of course not. Feeling bad about the fact that you’re feeling bad will only draw you deeper into the emotion. You will then find it even more difficult to get out. Give yourself a break. Like it or not, life will give you another chance to practice with emotional waves crashing.

    Life is hard. Now what?

    Recognizing a difficult emotion and stopping to think gives you the opportunity to choose what to do next. We know that following an emotion into darkness isn’t helpful and drains energy. But now you can think of what would be helpful! This is where resilience is built.

    In my example of uncertainty at work, I can think of several productive actions to take. I can chat with a trusted co-worker, recall the value my job brings to my life, or I can even daydream about a side hustle. Not because I’m thinking of leaving. Instead, there’s nothing wrong with being prepared for any outcome.

    Which action I choose to take doesn’t really matter. The point is that I am in control and can take steps to more fully accept the (wonderful) life I have. This also keeps me from quitting suddenly in a fit of frustration and without a plan for what’s next.

    Just be careful that the action you take doesn’t contain resistance. When you call a friend, it’s not time to complain about your job. Rather, take joy in the connection you have with that person. Keep in mind that when you act in resistance to your negative emotions, you create more chaos for yourself and others.

    Cultivate resilience and prevent burnout

    Change is the only constant in life, right? There’s so much we can’t control. But you know what? There’s often a lot that we can control. Learn to recognize the difference and put your limited resources into what you have the power to influence. Do what you can to create the environment that best supports whatever it is you need to be resilient and protect yourself from burnout.

    You’re the expert on your own life and the only one who truly knows what conditions help you thrive. How do you want to feel during your days? Energized? Peaceful? Engaged? Maybe some of all of those things. Picture yourself going through the day feeling that way – what do your surroundings look and sound like? Who is with you? What’s on your schedule for the day?

    Strength through small changes

    How can you start small and get closer to the version of yourself that you pictured? This is the version of you who is the most resilient and protected from burnout. Can you make your physical environment more calming or efficient? Perhaps with your favorite music or with a scented candle.

    In work situations, I often find it’s the systems around me that cause me challenges. If this is also the case for you, can you offer suggestions to streamline a particularly onerous process? Or maybe talk with your coworkers about the strategies they use to get around these roadblocks? This tactic is my favorite. It earns bonus points because it also develops bonds with your colleagues!

    Cultivate resilience through self care

    An essential part of creating a supportive environment is taking care of you. Pay close attention to what types of self-care work well for you. When you’re bogged down with problems, you may find you’re putting yourself last. Avoid this temptation! You’ll be best equipped to face challenges when you’re in a good headspace.

    Review your habits around sleeping, eating, exercise, and mental wellbeing. Again, remember the rule to start with small changes to make improvements. Would taking a 5-minute deep breathing break from work once an hour be feasible and helpful? Could you go for a walk during that phone call to catch up with your best friend? For me, I know I’m most able to absorb the blows of the day when I exercise in the morning. I try to build that into my schedule every day I can.

    Do I have to cultivate resilience all on my own?

    No way! True resilience is a team sport. We all need a strong network of supportive people around us. There is much more to be said on this subject, but I doubt I need to convince you that having people to listen when you’re having a tough time is invaluable. These people are there to help you fill your well of resilience when you need it, then you return the favor another day.

    Finding the right people for your network requires intention and discernment. It takes energy to develop trusting relationships. The benefits are well worth the work required. Just be sure you’re bringing people into your circle who understand that you’re looking for constructive support. Those who want to engage in a complaining contest need not apply. Seek people who help you see the positive and take action that will put you on a path to cultivate resilience.

    Go forth and be resilient

    You’re a survivor! Following the steps I’ve laid out will help you thrive, too.

    Remember the world is not some devious plot against you. First, accept what you can and cannot control. Next, think deeply about the environment that will best set you up for success. Make small changes to create your most supportive environment and allow you the space for self-care. Build your resilience support network with care and watch burnout fade far into the distance.

    P.S. I have much more to say about recovering from burnout, so stay tuned for future posts.

  • How to make the best use of coconut milk

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    It’s snowing today in the mountain town where I live. There’s something about the sun hiding behind clouds that just makes me feel cold! Time to make a warm, comforting meal. And for me to give some tips on how to make the best use of coconut milk while you’re at it.

    Once you’re done lounging in the sunny spot by the window like a cat, it’s time to make curry! There’s so much to love. Bold flavors, rich texture, and an opportunity to empty the produce drawer of your fridge before anything goes bad. It breaks my heart to throw out any food. I’m constantly on a mission to use up all the goodies I have on hand when everything is at its peak of freshness.

    The one thing I don’t love about coconut milk is I never have the right amount (canned) in my cupboard. I either don’t have any and the grocery store is sold out, or I only need half a can for a recipe. I’m cooking for one over here, y’all! I don’t know what to do with half a can’s worth. Pouring it down my sink is not an option.

    Rest easy and read on to learn how I’ve solved the coconut milk puzzle once and for all.

    I know, I know – it feels unnatural to use powdered anything. Only cook with foods your grandmother would recognize, right? If your grandmothers were of Danish and German ancestry like mine were, they probably never saw a can of coconut milk in their lives. But I digress, and I ask you to hear me out.

    The brand I use, Now Foods powdered coconut milk, has only 3 ingredients. I think the benefits outweigh the risks. Here’s why I like powdered rather than canned coconut milk:

    The powdered version is more cost effective

    Over time, I’ve found that buying can after can of liquid coconut milk costs more than keeping a pouch of powdered milk in my pantry. You’re purchasing a larger quantity in the powdered form, which cuts down on the cost. This is especially true if you factor in how much liquid coconut milk you might waste for a recipe that only uses one cup of a 13.5-oz. can.

    Skip searching multiple grocery stores

    I live in a small town. We have several grocery stores (though not an Asian specialty store), but I try to make the best use of my time by doing all my shopping at one store. So, it really bugs me when coconut milk is sold out at my regular store! I don’t care to take the extra time to drive all over town looking for one item. Keeping shelf-stable powdered coconut milk in my pantry solves this problem. All I have to do is make sure I order more when I’m running low.

    You control the richness of the dish

    I love that I can adjust the amount of water I add to the coconut milk powder in order to choose my own adventure in richness. Simply add a little bit of water for a thick, luxurious cream. Or add a lot for a “light” addition to your recipe. This way, you don’t have to water down what you bought in a can and then waste the rest.

    I put the powder right into a liquid measuring cup when mixing with water.

    Less waste

    Yep, I’ll hit this point again. I have so many recipes that only use one cup (8 ounces) of coconut milk from a 13.5-ounce can. And then I have to devise a plan to use the rest of the milk in the can. Since I usually only cook for myself, there’s only so much coconut milk I can use in the short period of time it lasts once the can is open. Save yourself some money and the heartache of pouring the extras down the drain. Use only what you need with the powdered version.

    It’s also important to note that plain coconut milk doesn’t freeze well, so that’s not a great way to preserve that second half of the can. I find that coconut milk freezes just fine once it’s in a dish (like a curry) or a sauce that you plan to use later. See below for some ideas….

    Create satisfying meals

    Now that I’ve converted you to a champion of powdered coconut milk, it’s time for some ideas on how to cook with it! Like I said, I’m a big fan of curries (and similar dishes) in the winter since they warm me up. Curries and stews can be a good option for other seasons, too. I usually try to avoid using my oven in the summer, so I have a couple go-to slow cooker recipes that satisfy my hearty meal cravings but don’t trap extra heat in my house. Slow cooked meals can also be a huge time saver, especially if you tend to be rushed in the evenings. 

    Here are a couple of my favorite slow cooker recipes (both vegan!) that rely on coconut milk. They’re easily converted to use either the canned or powdered versions. You can also double the recipe for larger meals or even a potluck.

    Butternut squash slow cooker curry

    A warming and hearty vegan butternut squash curry.
    Prep Time20 minutes
    Cook Time8 hours
    Total Time8 hours 20 minutes
    Course: Main Course
    Cuisine: American, Indian, vegan
    Keyword: slow cooker meal, vegan curry
    Servings: 4 people

    Ingredients

    • 2 cups dried red lentils
    • 4 cups butternut squash cubed
    • 1 cup onion diced
    • 2 cloves garlic minced
    • 2 tablespoons fresh ginger minced or grated
    • 1 tablespoon curry powder
    • 2 teaspoons ground coriander
    • 2 teaspoons garam masala
    • 2 teaspoons ground cumin
    • 1 1/2 teaspoons turmeric
    • 14.5 ounce can diced tomatoes
    • 3 cups vegetable broth
    • 1/2 cup powdered coconut milk

    Instructions

    • Place all ingredients except the coconut milk in a slow cooker, stir, and cook on low for 8 hours.
    • Before serving, stir in the powdered coconut milk. Add salt, to taste.

    Notes


    Slow cooker vegan tikka masala

    A tasty meal that is packed with protein and veggies. Let it slow cook while you tackle your to-do list.
    Prep Time20 minutes
    Cook Time8 hours
    Course: Main Course
    Cuisine: American, vegan
    Keyword: slow cooker meal, vegan meal
    Servings: 4 people

    Ingredients

    • 1 cup onion diced
    • 4 cloves garlic minced
    • 2 tablespoons fresh ginger minced or grated
    • 15 ounce can tomato sauce
    • 2 tablespoons olive oil
    • 1 tablespoon garam masala
    • 2 teaspoons ground cumin
    • 2 teaspoons paprika
    • 1 teaspoon ground coriander
    • 1 teaspoon turmeric
    • 1/2 teaspoon cayenne pepper
    • 1/2 teaspoon ground black pepper
    • 1/4 teaspoon cinnamon
    • 7 ounces extra firm tofu half of a standard 14-oz. block
    • 1 cup canned chickpeas drained
    • 2-3 cups chopped vegetables of your choice see notes for suggestions
    • 1 bay leaf
    • 1/2 cup powdered coconut milk
    • 1 cup water

    Instructions

    • Place all ingredients except the bay leaf and coconut milk in a slow cooker and stir.
    • Place the bay leaf on top of the mixture.
    • Cook on low for 8 hours.
    • Before serving, remove bay leaf and stir in the powdered coconut milk. Add salt, to taste.

    Notes

    • I recommend Now Foods Coconut Milk Powder (paid ad)
    • Vegan
    • Vegetables I recommend: cauliflower, carrot, bell pepper, and/or broccoli. A great way to use the leftover produce in your fridge!
    • This tikka masala freezes well
    • You may serve the meal as written, or with steamed rice
    • Adapted from Delish Knowledge

    Craft yummy sauces

    My second favorite way to use powdered coconut milk is in delicious sauces that can be used in a variety of recipes such as stir fries, pizzas, and buddha bowls. Here’s my go-to recipe:

    Buddha’s Belly sauce

    A rich, flavorful sauce to use in a stir fry, atop pizza, or anywhere you like.
    Prep Time5 minutes
    Cook Time10 minutes
    Total Time15 minutes
    Course: Sauce
    Cuisine: American, Thai, vegan
    Keyword: thai peanut curry sauce, vegan pizza sauce, vegan sauce

    Ingredients

    • 1 tablespoon olive oil
    • 1 tablespoon garlic minced
    • 1/3 cup + 2 tablespoons peanut butter
    • 1/4 cup brown sugar
    • 2 teaspoons red curry paste
    • 1/4 teaspoon chili powder
    • 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
    • 1/2 teaspoon sesame oil
    • 1/2 cup powdered coconut milk

    Instructions

    • Stir the powdered coconut milk with enough warm water to make 1 cup of liquid coconut milk. Set aside.
    • Heat the oil in a medium skillet or pot over medium heat, then cook the garlic for 30 seconds.
    • Whisk in the peanut butter, brown sugar, curry paste, chili powder, cayenne pepper, sesame oil, and coconut milk.
    • Bring to a boil, then reduce the heat to simmer for 5-10 minutes, whisking occasionally.
    • The sauce should be smooth and will thicken as it cools.

    Notes

    This is SO delicious as a pizza sauce.
    I recommend Now Foods Coconut Milk Powder (paid ad) 

    One more note on using powdered coconut milk in sauces: stay tuned for a future post on how to create a DIY backpacking meal with a delicious sauce featuring coconut milk. I’ll discuss how to craft a meal kit including a carb source, dehydrated veggies, extra protein options, and delectable sauce to bring with you on your next adventure. Packing light for a trip to the backcountry does not mean you need to eat cardboard food!

    Now you’re ready to make your life easier by keeping powdered coconut milk in your pantry. This hack will help you eat healthy, hearty meals with less cost and hassle. And you’ll end up wasting less! I hope you’re staying warm out there and that you are invited to a very fun potluck dinner sometime soon.


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  • How to enjoy winter recreation, even with unexpected weather

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    Has your winter recreation game been thrown off by strange weather in your area, too? It seems every week I’m reading about unseasonable snowstorms (or lack thereof), cold snaps, and oddly timed natural disasters. These are real problems. I do not mean to diminish the real impact they have on people’s lives. But once the danger has passed, I think it’s helpful to get back to the winter recreational activities that support our mental health. For me here in Southwest Colorado, that’s usually skiing. This season there’s relatively little snow. My secret is I have never stopped my running routine from the summer!

    What’s your strategy when your usual recreation routine is disrupted? I’m a big promoter of physical activity and time outside as essential components of any plan for mental wellbeing. And I know it’s a pain in the rear to revise the plan for circumstances out of our control. But until we can control the weather – revise we must!  There are a few key things to keep in mind as you fine-tune your wellness this winter (and beyond). Here’s how I’m surviving….

    Don’t fight the weather, work with it

    If you’ve found a way to control the weather by fretting about it, please get in touch with me immediately. I haven’t found this to be an effective strategy as a mere mortal. So, I have instead taken to just accepting what we get. Don’t get me wrong – I still stalk my favorite weather forecasting site (thanks, NOAA.gov!). I just stop myself before I let it get me down when I don’t see what I want on the horizon. The sun will eventually shine…it just might take a while.

    It’s also a losing game to wait for that glorious sunny, cloudless day to arrive. It might or it might not arrive any time soon, and your wellbeing hangs in the balance. Better to work with what Mother Nature has given you than gaze longingly out the window. You could be missing out on dialing up your contentment a notch or two!

    I’m in acceptance mode. Now what?

    Now that you’re a Zen master in full acceptance of today’s forecast, it’s time to optimize your activity. I recognize that not everyone has the luxury of an extremely flexible schedule. But, to the extent that you have wiggle room in your day, try to choose a time of day (and/or week) that’s going to work best for you. Are there temperature extremes to work around? Daylight hours to maximize or precipitation to avoid? Maybe you have meetings at certain times or need to factor in parenting duties.

    My experience

    I love to run outside. I can get pretty fancy with how I work even a few miles into my day. As I mentioned, I watch the weather forecast quite closely. I take note of temperatures and expected precipitation over the next few days. I also consult the hourly forecast each morning and select a time I can make it outside when the temperature is relatively comfortable. In the summer, this is often in the morning before the heat gets going. In the winter it’s the opposite. Yes, this requires extra steps and some mental energy and yes, I absolutely think it’s worth every minute I invest.

    I also find it helpful to have backup options. Sometimes it’s just too darn cold. Or I have too many work tasks to complete in a day. Or it’s pouring rain. On these days I often ride my road bike in my garage (it’s set up on a trainer). Shhhh…I’ve attended webinars and answered many an email while pedaling. What’s your backup plan? Get creative!

    Maintain your activities from other seasons

    I live in a place with four distinct seasons, so I usually switch sports with the rhythms of nature. I’m learning this year is just different and I’m going with it. I’m seeing this as an opportunity to maintain my usual summer activity – running! It’s a strange feeling to be running on trails that should be covered in snow in the dead of winter. Maybe you’re hiking, riding a bike, or walking your dog in unusual circumstances this year. By continuing these pursuits indefinitely rather than taking a break we risk burnout. Instead, I advocate keeping the following list in mind if you’re sticking with one sport.

    The three keys

    1. Lower your intensity
    2. Don’t forget stretching and strength training
    3. Match your fuel and recovery need to your activity level

    For me, a lower intensity of running looks like fewer miles and steep slopes, and a slower pace. I still get the same positive benefits from my run and it’s ok to “slack” a little. I won’t be race training for a few more months. In other words, stop and smell the flowers. You might even notice some new things in your environment that are always hidden from you in the summers. 

    Stretching and strength training remain as important as ever, even in the off season. It’s so tempting to let these extra steps fall by the wayside because your intensity level is lower than normal. Don’t let injuries find you! Better to invest the time in caring for your body now. Then you’ll be in tip-top shape when it’s ready to hit the gas and go full intensity again. Who knows – you may even reach new goals this year after the unexpected extra training time!

    Lastly, every active person knows that fuel and recovery are the most fun parts of training. Rewards, baby! Make sure you match your fuel intake and rest time to your activity level. It can be easy to let autopilot take over. Like sticking to your typical seasonal cycle of snack and nap intakes. But I promise you that your 10-mile run requires just as much attention to food intake and recovery in January as it does in June. Perhaps even more. Keep up all those healthy habits you’re so good at regardless of the date on the calendar.

    Choose the right gear

    Don’t you hate all those people who say there’s no bad weather, only bad gear choices? Yes, they’re intolerable. They are also correct. And nerding out on gear is fun, so let’s forgive them.

    This winter I’m finding myself doing a lot of road running and I’ve been loving my Brooks Ghost road shoes (#ad). Good gear ain’t cheap, however I find these shoes to be high quality at a price point I can justify. Wearing supportive shoes also prevents injury and will keep you running longer. The way I see it, spend more money on shoes and scale back in other areas of your kit if needed.

    What about clothes?

    Speaking of the rest of your kit, here’s where the creativity comes in. As a mountain dweller, I’m well versed in the art of layering. That skill has come in handy this winter as I’ve had to brave some very cold temps. I also take into consideration how sunny it’s going to be when selecting my layers. I live at high altitude and the sun is very intense when it’s on full blast.

    You know your climate the best. So have fun as you experiment with different combinations of shirts/jackets/vests for your top half and shorts/pants for the lower deck. Try to stick to lightweight layers that are easy to put on and take off as the conditions change. Especially when you might be dealing with cold fingers. Layering experts will also think about the fabric colors – darker means more absorption of the sun’s warmth. Could be wanted or unwanted depending on the conditions.

    And don’t forget your accessories! While you’re certainly welcome to wear fabulous earrings during your adventures, I’m referring to hats, gloves, sunglasses, gaiters, etc. in this case. These items are essential. Be careful in thinking through what you need.

    Make it fun!

    This is the most critical step. You may be feeling some winter doldrums, and it’s time to actively chase those bad boys away. Yes, I wish I could be skiing amazing powder on the slopes near my home. But darn it, I can still find ways to have fun in the winter. It’s all in the attitude you bring.

    One of the best parts of lower intensity activity in the off-season is the opportunity to focus on the social bonds. Your activity fosters bonding rather than reaching some training goal. All of my favorite runs are the ones I do with my friends. Even when we’re running a tad slower because we’re deep in conversation. In my humble opinion, the human connection we gain at a slower pace is well worth it. So whatever activity it is that floats your boat, find a friend to bring along. Accomplish two goals by enjoying time together while also staying active. You’re even allowed to continue the conversation over coffee once you’ve hit your goals for miles!

    Does gear count in the fun column?

    Yes! There are many other positive and potentially fun aspects to letting go of training goals for a while. Testing out new gear can be a pain when the stakes are high. But when the pressure isn’t on, gear testing can be a fun game! Have you always wanted to try a different style of shoe, pack size, or hydration system? This is your moment to shine. Be sure to take notes so you don’t forget all your discoveries once your primary season rolls around again. You could even get your friend gang together for a double-whammy social event/gear test. See? Fun! Well, at least it’ll scratch your nerd itch.

    Finally, lets’ go back to the beginning. Switching up your routine can give you a fresh perspective and a chance to make new observations. The plant and animal life in your environment is likely to be quite different season-to-season. And what differences do you notice as the days get longer or shorter? You may even have people you often run into around your neighborhood or on the trails – have their habits shifted? It’s all about being playful and bringing a curious mindset to the pursuits that keep you well.

    And one more vote for my favorite Brooks Ghost road shoes (#ad).


    The winter recreation bottom line

    I don’t have to tell you that we’re wasting time by wishing that circumstances were different from what nature gives us. Maybe it’s too hot, too cold, too Y, or too Z. But staying active is way too important and beneficial to each of us to make excuses. To recap:

    • Adapt to the weather you have
    • Continue your favorite activities from other seasons
    • Match your gear to the conditions
    • Let your playful side out

    Please use the ideas above to get outside and love the world you’re in. I’m confident you’ll be glad you did.

  • GPS watch: powerful technology to optimize your running game

    The Coros Apex 2 GPS watch

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    Do you struggle with planning your long runs when you’re training for an event or race? I’m talking half marathons, full marathons, and ultras. Coming up with a stellar route for a long run of any sort can be a challenge. I have a tool to suggest…. I’ve had unexpected success using a GPS watch to optimize my runs and save myself a bunch of time and heartache.

    At first I was hesitant to use a GPS watch. Maybe you are, too? I wasn’t sure I wanted the data overload. Plus, I tend to be hard on myself and I was worried the stats would just make it worse. I’m happy to report I’ve had way more positives to using the Coros Apex 2 than any negatives (paid ad). Keep reading for my tips on how to use this tool to simplify your planning process. This is the must-have addition to your running kit.

    GPS watch: not just for data geeks and overly competitive people

    This was my biggest concern before I bought the Coros Apex 2. What on earth was I going to do with gobs of information on my stride length and “training effect”? I’m sure these numbers are important to pro athletes, but I am a mere mortal. Still, there are so many statistics that really are useful for the average runner.

    Also, the information you’re getting is different while you’re running vs. what you’re viewing later at home. This watch pairs with the Coros app on your phone – that’s where you can go as deep down the rabbit hole as you care to go. Here are a few of the stats I find most helpful during a run:

    1. Miles
    2. Elevation
    3. Heart rate
    4. Total activity time

    Let’s talk about each one in a little more detail:

    Miles

    Along with most of my friends who run, I plan my training runs to a specific mileage. When I’m running in unfamiliar terrain, I find it helpful to have a real-time display of my cumulative miles. This allows me to turn back precisely halfway on an out-and-back. I can also add a little bit of distance if I’m short when I finish a loop run (or other pattern).

    Elevation

    I tend to run races with substantial elevation gain, so this is a big one. It’s very important to train with hill climbs if that’s the type of event you’ll be running. Knowing your cumulative elevation gain during a run can help you adjust your route to do more or less climbing, as needed.

    Heart rate

    Watching how hard your heart is working can help you determine when to switch from running to hiking. Or when to slow your running pace. Endurance running is all about maintaining a heart rate that you can sustain for long time periods.

    Total activity time

    When you’re in the zone it’s easy to lose track of time. I like this number as a quick and dirty estimate of whether my pace and effort will allow me to meet the cutoff times of a race.

    These read-outs are all simple and easy to understand – no PhD in mathematics required. Plus they give a ton of information to help dial in your strategy when training for a particular event.


    An unexpected yet amazing addition to my running (and hiking) kit

    Running long distances has enormous potential for good. And enormous potential for harm. I’m not going to get into the possibilities of physical harm today. Rather, some of the mental aspects. Wherever there is sport, you will find competition and pressure. This is an unavoidable fact of life. Learning how much of this to take on and how to manage it is the key.

    Like I said, I resisted using a GPS watch for years because I thought it would add pressure on me and make running less fun. Many athletes put tremendous pressure on themselves to perform and I am no exception. I have learned over the years that inviting more pressure into my life is not a winning strategy. But much to my surprise, I have found that adding the Coros to my kit has given me peace of mind rather than more stress.

    Let your GPS watch stress for you

    On top of being hard on myself, I’m also a very precise person and I plan everything. It’s just the way I am wired. In the past, I would spend insane amounts of time poring over maps trying to figure out the total mileage when I would string together shorter trails to create a long run. Yes, I’m aware there’s an app for that. But I don’t have that app and now I don’t need it.

    On the trail near my home

    Using my GPS watch allows me to use maps for a rough estimate of mileage, then get a more precise measurement when I’m out on the trails. This reduces my stress significantly during the planning stage. It’s the same story for elevation gain. Maps are great, but the ability to measure the climbs and descents in real life is much more valuable to me.

    The other benefit of using a GPS watch paired with an app is that it automatically stores a log of each run and its associated stats. I find this to be of immense value for a couple of reasons.

    1. I know with more precision whether I am meeting my mileage and elevation goals when training for an event.
    2. I can use the data from runs (and run segments) to create new routes without doing additional research. 

    It’s also just great to know the distance or how long any specific run took me to complete. I often repeat routes, but I don’t always remember how far or long it was. Now, when I want to run 8 miles locally or I have 90 minutes to spare, I can consult my trusty log and find just the right route to meet my needs.

    Protect yourself from the mind games

    Now that we’ve covered all the reasons I think GPS watches are great, it’s time to give some words of caution. Let’s talk about how to avoid getting sucked into an abyss of mind games.

    Each person’s appetite for competition (whether with other people or yourself) is different. Step number one is to understand where you lie on this spectrum. Do you find yourself motivated by seeing what kinds of runs and paces your friends are doing? Or maybe sharing stats is a way to keep in touch with friends and nothing more. If you’re like me, it’s a slippery slope into self doubt when I compare myself too much to other people. Your reaction to social media and the curated personas presented on those platforms may offer some clues.

    Only you can determine whether comparison is a force for good or evil. Once you have that figured out, remember that you’re the one in control. While sharing your latest run on Strava is super fun for some people, it is the opposite for others. Do not yield to the peer pressure! There is nothing wrong with keeping your data to yourself. There are plenty of other ways to connect with your friends and bond over the experiences of training. If your friends are pestering you to share more, politely explain to them why you would rather keep this information to yourself. I bet you they’ll respect you for your self-knowledge.

    Manage your own expectations

    Regardless of how much data you choose to share with the world, you will have access to it. With this power comes great responsibility. Make sure you’re staying realistic with yourself and acknowledging that even pro athletes have good and bad days. You will have days when you feel invincible. You will also have days when you don’t even know why you bothered to lace up your shoes. This is true of all of us, so give yourself a break! Take both the ups and downs with a grain of salt. Tomorrow will always be different.

    Use the statistics from your watch when they’re helpful. Do yourself a favor and ignore the rest. For example, I am not a huge fan of composite measurements like “Training status”. Experience has told me that these composites do not match well with how I feel. I’ve been running regularly for over 20 years and alive for much longer. I know my body well. I find it very hard to believe that a watch I met a couple months ago knows more about my mojo level than I do. With all due respect to algorithms, the human brain is still extremely powerful. If you are not jiving with some of the, shall we say, opaque numbers your watch is showing you, I suggest pretending you don’t see them.

    The bottom line on GPS watches

    By far, the most important asset you have when doing anything that’s difficult is your mental fortitude. You are strong! You can do this. Don’t let computers and numbers get in the way of what you know you’re capable of. If you have limited time and energy to spend, you’ll get way more payoff investing it in strengthening your mental game.

    GPS watches can be an awesome addition to your kit, especially if you’re running into uncharted territory. This is true if it’s a trail you’re discovering for the first time. It’s also true if you’re striving to run a longer distance than you’ve previously attempted. The key to getting benefit from the data your watch provides is to retain control. Choose which features help you reach your goals and leave the rest. Protect yourself from mind games and preserve your strong will to slay.

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  • 5 top tips for an amazing single life in your middle years

    Glacier National Park self portrait

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    Do you feel like it’s tough to thrive as a middle-aged woman? Maybe you’re even trying to get there when single in your 40s or 50s? The world is built for couples and the young. It can seem like you’re surrounded by married people reaping all the benefits of a duo with half the effort. Add the emergence of wrinkles and it’s easy to think that your value to the world is decaying with each passing year. But it isn’t so!

    I was terrified to turn 40 and once viewed it as a turning point in my life. Could anything good happen after age 40? I found myself never married and with no kids but also stuck in a series of jobs that didn’t fit me well. It was a dark time, and no amount of birthday candles would light it up.

    But I have made it to the other side and can honestly say my 40s are shaping up to be the best decade of my life so far. I want that for you, too! I’m happy to share my top 5 takeaways to date:

    Optimize your autonomy

    It can feel totally overwhelming to have every choice available to you. Where to live when you’re not tied down anywhere? What kind of job to apply for next? Which weekend activity to pursue? This is the well-known paradox of choice. You can learn to trust yourself and your decision-making process. I hope you recognize the great fortune of being the boss of your own single life.

    I’ve had the umm…privilege? of making several big life decisions on my own. I can relate to the agony of committing to a big shift like a career change or inter-state move. You’re the only one to blame if something blows up in your face! Still, it’s important to remember that the outcome of your decision is determined more by the attitude you bring to it than the actual choice you make. Fully commit to your choice and approach it with an open mind. Chances are you’ll feel you made a good move. Or at the very least you’ll learn a valuable lesson.

    My Experience thriving as a single woman in my 40s

    As an example, I spent the first couple decades of adulthood pursuing a career in medicine that I ended up disliking for many reasons. Eventually, I shifted into public health as my profession. This was a really tough journey, and I’ll share much more in future posts. Recognizing that I was the one in control helped me find my way to a positive outcome. I did the research and weighed the options. I decided what my deal breakers were and what I valued most. And I brought an open mind into any new pursuits.

    This isn’t about being selfish. It’s about designing your life in a way that aligns with what you value. Living the single life means you’re in the driver’s seat and can steer yourself in the direction that is best for your long-term contentment.

    An empowering, beautiful sunrise in the Rocky Mountains reflected in a pond.

    Allow yourself to feel empowered

    Now you’ve acknowledged what a gift it is to make choices on your own. Don’t forget to congratulate yourself on your accomplishments and your extremely impressive personal growth! This adulting stuff is hard, even for people who do have partners. You’re encouraged to feel like the boss you have proved you are.

    I remember how scary it was to leave a secure job and take a risk on a career change. I’ve also had several people tell me they think I’m brave for having done it. I don’t mind agreeing with them. The best part is that I showed myself I was fully capable of navigating a very difficult and impactful life change. Every subsequent life change has been just a little bit easier. I had my own experience to draw from and empower me. I wouldn’t go so far as to ask for huge challenges, but I no longer fear them. Now I have the life skills to manage and grow from each one that comes my way.

    Follow your passions

    Are you feeling amped yet? Good! Now it’s time to bask in your own glory and develop your hobbies. You probably already have hobbies, or at least ideas on what interests you outside of life’s obligations. Life is busy. Maybe you only have a small amount of time to devote to pursuits that are purely for your own enjoyment. I have found that we neglect hobbies at our own risk. Merely ticking the boxes of all the must-do’s can feel a little empty.

    If you have lots of time and money for hobbies, then go for it! For those with fewer resources to invest, it’s still possible to fit leisure into your life. While I have a few hobbies I love, one that brings me daily joy is cooking. I’m a very practical person and highly value my health. I look at cooking as an activity with multiple wins. I find it to be a creative outlet, I feel like I’m nourishing my body with (mostly) the good stuff, and I have to eat anyway, so it might as well be good!

    Whatever it is that moves you, be sure to make space for it in your life. Fun is essential.

    The author living an awesome single life while on a hike in Patagonia, Argentina.
    Livin’ it up on a hike!

    Invest in friends and/or family

    There are only so many hours in the day, right? Relationships is another realm of single life that is worth every minute you put into it. Friends and family provide the support network we all need. Especially those of us who are flying solo through the world. A truly rich relationship with a friend or family member is reciprocal. I may need your help now, then it will be my turn to support you in the future when you’re in a tough spot.

    In my younger days of school and in-person workplaces I found it much easier to meet new people. My days have since shifted to remote work and fewer built-in places to mingle. I’ve discovered that meeting folks and fostering relationships requires much more intentional effort. I have also found this extra effort to pay great dividends. The people I’m close to now are the ones with whom I share interests. Not just those who are conveniently sitting at the next desk over. The friends I’ve met through trail running are some of the closest relationships I’ve ever had. There’s something about working hard together in the outdoors that opens us up to reveal our true selves.

    Find a group in your area that gets together regularly to connect, whether it’s to go for walks, knit, discuss a book, or play board games. Put yourself out there and invite a new acquaintance out for coffee. Relax, it’s only coffee. Keep in touch over the little things in life since that’s how deeper connections grow.

    Cultivate Purpose to Live Your Best Life

    This is a big one. Sometimes I’ve felt like I’m wandering through life with no direction and it’s not a warm and fizzy feeling. One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned over time is that I’m the one in charge of cultivating a purposeful life. Purpose isn’t going to show up at my house and ring my doorbell. A lucky few of us seem to be born with a clear purpose. I think it’s much more common for this to be a work in progress over the course of a life. And don’t forget that your purpose will almost certainly change as you evolve with time.

    Purpose doesn’t need to hold meaning for anyone other than you. Maybe you simply want to be the best version of yourself. Or you might have a goal that forms your purpose. Going back to school, buying a house, or finding one new friend this year. When you’re feeling like you may have lost your way in the melee of life, knowing your purpose will help you ensure you remain on the right path.

    Remember that much of single life is mundane and it’s highly unlikely you’re going to be crushing goals every day. Give yourself a break and recognize that as long as you’re living in a way that aligns with your purpose you’re doing just fine.


    The Bottom Line on Thriving as a Middle-Aged Woman

    These tips for a satisfying single life in your middle years are easy to read and tricky to adhere to day after day. It takes a lot of self-reflection, emotional bandwidth, and missteps to optimize a life. Take comfort in knowing that everyone is a masterpiece in progress and there’s no rush. You may be catching subliminal messages from our youth-obsessed culture that you’re over the hill and on your way down, but this isn’t true. It’s called midlife because, hopefully, you have decades left to enjoy your time on Earth. Your best years are ahead of you if you want them to be. You’re a cheetah – get out there and make it happen.


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